How Personality Assessments Can Help Your Career

How Personality Assessments Can Help Your Career I have often said that I didn't begin to know myself until I was in my 30's and by then was already a litigator. An unhappy one. I chose to hang on and gut it out, confident that I could overcome my ­distaste for battle and learn to love litigation. Changing firms only served to cement my sense that I was in the wrong field because no matter how nice the people I worked with were, my feelings about the work did not transform. I marveled at litigators who reveled in [...]

By | 2017-02-28T21:14:48+00:00 February 27, 2017|Categories: The Huffington Post, The Legal Intelligencer|Tags: , , , , , |

The Thrill and Adventure of Working at a Startup

What's next on your bucket list ­professionally? Do you ever think of starting your own ­business or joining a startup? Working for a new enterprise can be exhilarating, especially when you prepare yourself. How do you do that? By surrendering to the fact that growth requires change, so nothing stays the same, and recognizing opportunities to be better, even if you have to quickly override your own decisions. When a business starts at ground zero, initial growth is ­exponential, requiring resilience and constant adaptation to the demands of it. Before doing it, I recommend a ­hard-nosed, clear-eyed assessment of your [...]

By | 2016-09-22T19:58:36+00:00 September 22, 2016|Categories: The Legal Intelligencer|Tags: , , , , , |

Life Lesson from LeBron James

I am not a sports fan – just want to state that up front. Nothing against it, but I don't follow professional athletics or root for any teams. What does interest me is the way people make decisions, the consequences they face and how they handle obstacles that pop up along the way. In the case of LeBron James, he made two decisions that made people very unhappy – to leave the team that drafted him at the start of his career and to return to it four years later. LeBron James was born in Akron, Ohio in 1984, was [...]

By | 2016-06-28T14:51:01+00:00 June 20, 2016|Categories: The Huffington Post|Tags: , , |

Mastering the Art of Career Transitions

Brenda was 57 years old when she was suddenly laid off from a major Philadelphia law firm in 2011 after 20 years. This is the story of how she learned the new terrain of seeking employment, repackaged herself and how you can too. The first thing Brenda did was spend "a month on the couch." She was shocked, devastated and describes it as "losing a chunk of identity." She doubted her worth as a professional. This was not wasted time, but a necessary recharging period that pays off when you get ready to go for it. It may be important [...]

By | 2016-06-01T17:32:38+00:00 September 11, 2014|Categories: The Legal Intelligencer|Tags: , , , |

Seeing the High Holidays as an Opportunity for Change

When you look back on last year, are there things you did or did not do that you wish you could change for the new year? Rosh Hashanah marks the beginning of the Ten Days of Awe, during which we Jews reflect upon our actions over the past year, seek forgiveness for transgressions and plan a better life. The work, which really begins in this month leading up to the High Holidays, starts with introspection, examining our lives and taking responsibility for it. Although God is the final judge, we individuals consider who we were over the past year and [...]

By | 2016-06-01T17:19:00+00:00 September 10, 2014|Categories: Jewish Exponent|Tags: , , , , |

Bouncing Back Is a Key Component of Success

"It always seems impossible until it's done." Nelson Mandela April 10 is a big day for historical accomplishments. On this day in 1866, The American Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Animals was formed. In 1947, Jackie Robinson became the first African-American in Major League baseball and in 1955, Dr. Jonas Salk successfully tested the polio vaccine. In each instance, there was a time when these achievements were inconceivable. As Jimmy Fallon exclaimed recently on the final night of his late-night show, "Five years ago, this didn't exist!" Now, his trademark late-night hashtags, thank-you notes and musical parodies are part [...]

By | 2016-06-03T14:39:04+00:00 March 11, 2014|Categories: The Legal Intelligencer|Tags: , , , |